Be soft. Do not let the world make you hard. Do not let the pain make you hate. Do not let the bitterness steal your sweetness. Bad things happen to good people, Bad things happen to bad people. Some things are simply out of your control. Sit in the sadness, revel in the happiness and let yourself learn the wrangled ways and deep lessons the world will throw at you. Take pride that even though the rest of the world may disagree, you still believe it to be a beautiful place.